结婚03🤵👰🏻 天主教筹备婚礼过程～ @ Preparation Process for Roman Catholic Wedding

我们结婚啦～ 

在天主教里，结婚是圣事。

谷10：9 天主所结合的，人不可拆散。

所以教会特别重视婚姻。

因此，我们的婚礼筹备过程是跟着“SOP”的哦

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Yes, we have married~

For Catholics, marriage is a sacrament. 

Mark 10:9 What therefore God hath joined together, 

let not man put asunder. 

Hence, Church very concern about marriage. 

Therefore, we have follow some "SOP"

for our marriage preparation.

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1 (1.8.2020) 我们一起见堂区神父填写报名婚前辅导课程的表格

We have meet our parish priest 

to fill in the form for CMPC ( Catholic Marriage Preparation Course)

神父问了一些关于我们的基本资料，然后帮我们填写表格，并盖章。

Priest asked us some basic info to help us fill in the form and endorse the form. 

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2 （21.8.2020) 一起交表格～

Hand in the form together~

吉隆坡的教友都是把表格交到吉隆坡总教区牧民中心

Catholics that stay at KL would have to send their form to 

Achdiocesan Pastoral Centre

No 5, Jln Robertson, 50150 Kuala Lumpur.

地图在此

map is here 👆

吉隆坡总教区牧民中心就坐落在St Anthony教堂后面，一座浅褐色的楼。

APC is a brownish block behind the Church of St Anthony.

这是圣安东尼教堂。

This is the Church of St Anthony.

交表格的办公室在二楼哦~

The office is at the 2nd floor. 

负责收表格的姐妹很好，她为我们做了很详细的解释。

因为目前疫情还没完全消失，所以我们很可能是上网课。

The sister who in charge to collect the form gave us detail information about the course.

Due to Covid, our class may be conducted online.  

交表格需要附上复印的身份证哦~

所以要记得准备

Form have to be handed with a copy of IC

Remember to prepare ya~

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3 (2.11.2020) 接到上课通知

Received notice from person incharge

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4 (27.11.2020-29.11.2020) 上婚前准备课程

Attend for CMPC class 

所以最后我们还是上了网课~

So, at last we have online CMPC class

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5 (16.01.2021) 交文件

Hand up documents

不同的堂区或不同的神父所要求的文件会有些不一样

所以可以询问教堂办公室或是神父以获取详情

我们的情况是因为神父忙，所以教堂办公室要求我们先交了文件再安排见神父

因为想要提早订好日期，方便安排其他筹备事项

所以询问之后，我们就已订好婚礼弥撒的日期

并付了定金

Different parish or father may have different requirement 

for the documents needed

so couples may ask parish office or father about the this

For our situation, Father was quite busy

so church officer ask us to hand up the documents then only arrange appointment with father

Due to we wish to fix the date earlier to make our arrangement easier

so after enquiry, we booked the actual day and paid for fix deposit

这张纸是教堂办公室给我的

除了所需的文件，里面还包括了弥撒联系人号码、布置教堂联络人号码

教会弥撒所需费用等等

This paper was given by parish officer

Besides documents needed,

 there is also list of contact for person in charge for wedding arrangement

like Liturgy, church decoration etc

and payment for the wedding

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6 (23.01.2021) 见神父做婚前调查

Meet father for pre-marital interview

见神父进行会谈后，教堂婚礼就定下啦~

*这是分开进行的哦*

After we meet Father for PNI, 

then the process is complete!

We can now prepare for your wedding~ ^.^

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7 (26.03.2021) 安排注册结婚

Arrange for Registration of Marriage

一切就绪之后，我们就到JPN排期登记结婚啦~

After all those procedure done, we arrange for our ROM at JPN.

(24.07.2021) 我们成了法律内合法夫妻👫

We have completed our civil marriage.

注册了之后要把结婚证书交给教堂办事处。

After ROM done, we hand in a copy of our wedding cert to the parish office.

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8 结婚的筹备

Preparation for Wedding Mass

基本上就是联系教堂婚礼负责人就可以了吧。😁 我联系布置教堂婚礼的负责人，和他沟通我想要的主题和喜欢的花。

First of all, contact the person in charge for wedding mass and he or she will arrange all for you. 😉

I contacted flower committee to tell them about my requirement for wedding decoration

 like the theme and she also asked me what flowers that I prefer.

选好主祭神父，和神父沟通，看看神父对于婚礼有什么要求。

例如，我的主祭神父——吴神父希望爸爸牵着我步入教堂，

在交换戒指仪式的时候，他建议做个戒指枕头。

Select the priest that will conduct the mass. 

Communicate with the priest about his requirement or preference for the mass.

Like mine, Fr Francis prefer my father to walk with me to the altar 

and he would like to have a rings pillow for rings exchange ceremony.

因为自己是服务人员之一，所以我自己邀请为我的婚礼💒弥撒服务的教友，嘻嘻。

因为疫情的关系，目前是没有实体彩排，我们都是进行线上彩排。💻

Due to pandemic, there is no rehearsal in church and was conducted online.💻

还有要修改和打印自己婚礼弥撒的册子。

要和神父确定他是否要我们提早把册子送去，

还有神父的册子需不需要打印A4 size的。

One of the most important thing is preparing the booklet for wedding mass. 

You need to check with Fr whether he wants the booklet to send to the church earlier

and the size of booklet. Some of the Fr prefer an A4 size booklet. 

🤭🤭🤭 去偷人家IG story的照片

Steal from friend's & sister's IG story

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8 (25.9.2021) 教堂婚礼

Wedding Mass

最后，我们完成了我们的婚礼💒啦~

Finally we done our wedding 💕💕💕

“从我到我们、

从独立思考到两个人思考、

从一个人生活到两个人生活。“

——教宗方济各

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